(Kadamba Kanana Swami, 1 March 2013, Vrndavan, India, Srimad Bhagavatam 4.27.10) Gradually, we must give up our false sense of security. Modern society is doing just the opposite and creating … more
Kadamba Kanana Swami
(22 December 2011, Cape Town, South Africa)
Srimad Bhagavatam 7.14.3-4
Affection and relationships should be there in our life. But of course, they shouldn’t lead to illicit sex. That is the bottom line. As you know, accidents do happen. That is the nature of the senses and the mind, that where there is attachment to such sense gratification, somehow or other, when men and women come together… you just don’t know how it happened! Somehow or other, it happened… and everybody could see it coming and could understand it’s going to happen if you go on like this… because that natural attraction is there.
Srimad Bhagavatam has the butter and fire analogy where men are butter and women are fire. And when the butter comes near the fire, it melts… it always melts! Bramacharis are basically trying to keep the butter in the fridge so that it doesn’t melt quickly so they have a whole fridge system there within their saffron cloth and bramachari practises.
Ladies in spiritual life are covering the fire. That’s why they cover their heads and wear sarees which cover the body more than modern clothing. So they are trying to cover the fire.
We are not trying to blame anybody, like throw the blame on the women that they are mayadevis. The poor men are the victims and those women are nothing but trouble makers. That is a somewhat biased and wrong understanding of what the Vedic literatures are saying. However, the illusory power of the female body is very strong undoubtedly. They have this power of attraction more than males. Although males may be attractive still the male body is not as charming as the female body.
In spiritual life, we recognise that the beauty of a female body has a danger connected to it. A danger to entangle spirit souls, both men and women. The women themselves are also falling victim to their own beauty… it gives a certain power and it’s kind of addictive and difficult to stop it. So devotees realise this and therefore keep a certain amount of reservation.